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Not just our imagination they stretch our ability to understand when and where change is possible.

不但延伸了我们的想象 还让我们能了解怎样的工夫和所在 有能够发生变革

The question when we see exceptions, whether it's the Lykken and Tellegen study,


Where we do see exceptions not all twins were the same,


Majority were, but not all the question is no longer whether or not change is possible,

次要的题目已不再是 改动能否有能够

But rather how is change possible. Once again, the exception proves the rule.


And the research that argues that it's not possible to change, is detrimental.

以为 改动是不行能 的研讨是无害的

Think about an eight year old girl, who's very unhappy,


And then reads some magazine about that study, saying that basically you are genetically set point

然后在杂志上读到谁人研讨研讨通知她 根本上你的基因决议了统统

What you are born with is there for life. She's unhappy.

你与生俱来的统统 将随同你终生她会更难过

She feels anxious and miserable as an 8 year old. And she says to herself,

她只要8岁 但会以为十分焦急与苦楚她就会想

That's it. That's my lot in life. I was born unlucky. And that, very often, becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

我的人生便是如许 我生来不幸 那很能够会成为一个自我完成的预言

And she remains unhappy. Sometimes it even makes her less happy than she was before.


Because now she's also helpless. Change is possible.


You know I often say that I am the right the person to teach positive psychology.


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